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Choice can make you unhappy. Choice is over-rated.

Video review and comments

Different choices lead to different outcomes. Some choices bring you wealth, fame and reward. Others don’t. But all scenarios lead to similar amounts of happiness. This is because the human brain has the incredible capacity to manufacture happiness even if you did not achieve your goals. In other words, all paths lead to similar amounts of happiness. So if you missed out on the opportunity to join Infosys, Google or the Beatles early on…it does not matter…you will be just as happy. You can call it self-justification.

Another interesting concept is developed: People who are presented with choice (e.g. choose one painting over another) will often be unhappier than people who had did not have choice. This is because people with choice will keep wondering about whether they made the best decision or not!

This is a wonderful video. In the spirit of a 20 min talk some broad statements and sweeping generalizations are made. But the central ideas mentioned above do hold together.

What learnings can we apply from this video in our own life? Lets talk about careers. If you believe everything this video says, then any career has the ability to make you happy. Some careers may be able to reward you more than others (money, power, fame etc) but even if you end up in a career that turns out to be non-rewarding, your brain will manufacture “synthetic happiness.”

Another important point in the video: Choice is an enemy of happiness. Coming back to my career example: if you have many career paths to choose from, then you might end up being quite unhappy (if you can always change to another career at a later stage). You mind will always engage in what-if type flagellation once you have chosen. However if your career choice is irrevocable then you will be happy because being stuck allows “synthetic happiness” to be created.

Check out the video for yourself. It certainly taught me a lot. Adam Smith is quoted in the video. I repeat him here:

The great source of both the misery and disorders of human life seems to arise from over-rating the difference between one permanent situation and another. Some of these situations may no doubt deserve to be preferred to others, but none of them can deserve to be pursued with that passionate ardour which drivers us to violate the rules either of prudence or of justice or to corrupt the future tranquility of our minds either by shame from remembrance of our own folly or by remorse from the horror of our own injustice.

Ideas that are benign to one culture can be toxic to another

Dan Dennett develops a powerful and compelling analogy between germs and new ideas. Dan works with Richard Dawkins’s insightful concept of a meme and adds some rich examples along the way. You will appreciate this video especially if you have read Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins. Highly Recommended. From ted.

Here’s one of those talks that can change your view of the world forever. Starting with the deceptively simple story of an ant, Dan Dennett unleashes a dazzling sequence of ideas, making a powerful case for the existence of “memes” — a term coined by Richard Dawkins for mental concepts that are literally alive and capable of spreading from brain to brain.

8 Words to Gaurantee Success!

Principles of Success

Passion
Do it for LOVE not MONEY

Work
Its all HARD WORK. Nothing comes easily

Good
To be successful you need to be GOOD at what you do.

Focus
You need to focus on one area

Push
You got to physically and mentally push, push, push. Remove the self doubts.

Serve
You need to SERVE others something of VALUE to become successful.

Ideas
You need a good idea to succeed. Listen, Observe, Be curious, Ask questions, problem solve, make connections

Persist
Persist through Failure. Persist through CRAP (Criticism, Rejection, Assholes and Pressure).

See a 3 minute video about this from TED

Are you in awe of this universe?

Are there moments when you feel so lucky to be in this universe? Does a movie about space exploration or a demonstration of a new technology put you in awe of what is possible?

Do you love science and technology? I have discovered this amazing site called TED.

Every year there is a conference in Monterey,California. Famous speakers are invited to give talks on a range of issues mostly related to science, exploration, design and technology. These lectures are on the web for all to see.

I’ve just spent the last couple of hours seeing some of these video. I have goose pimples all over my body. I’ve been totally blown away at human ingenuity, creativity and goodness.

These videos are absolutely inspirational. They have just cemented my decision to be in academics. I think all academics, intrepid explorers and entrepreneurs are similar: we are at the frontiers of knowledge. We want to invent, create, understand, explore, and learn about things that did not exist before.

Hats off to TED for making these videos freely distributable and available for all to see. Go here for a direct link to all the videos.

To get a flavour, I recommend this video to get started out